Truth or Dare Game for Couples

Frequently asked questions

How does kinky truth or dare work?

Pick a pack, then take turns choosing truth or dare. Truths are questions to answer honestly; dares are things to do. Choose a heat level (Flirty, Spicy, or Kinky) to set how far the prompts go, and turn off any categories you've ruled out.

What packs are there?

The Classic deck, plus themed packs: Long Distance, Date Night, Dom & Sub, Tease & Denial, Threesome, Toy Box, Strip, Swingers. Each pack runs from Flirty to Kinky, so the heat level works the same way in all of them. Long Distance is written for texts, voice notes and video calls, Threesome is for three of you and Swingers for two couples, both in the same room.

Can we play truth or dare by sending cards?

Yes. Switch the game to "Send cards", say whether you're in the same room or apart, and tap Send the first card. Each card has a truth on one side and a dare on the other. Your partner turns it over as often as they like, picks a side, and does it: in the same room they just do it and tap Done; apart, they write or record their answer to a truth, or prove the dare with a photo, a voice note, a message or a video call. The result comes back to you with a new random card from the same pack, and so on. Anyone can ask for a different card, turn the heat down, or end the game and start a new pack. Apart, only dares you can do from wherever you are come up, with Long Distance dares mixed in. Waiting on a reply? Add a reminder to your calendar; the alert just says "Any reply yet?". Cards and answers travel inside the link, so they never reach us, photos and voice notes go straight from your phone to your chat app, and the link preview just says "You've got a card".

What do the roles do?

Roles decide who's in charge on each card. A dominant gets the cards where they lead (tying, spanking, giving orders), a submissive the ones where they follow, and a switch gets both. "No power play" leaves out orders, restraint and spanking altogether. Set them in "Names, roles & your cards". Everyone starts as a switch.

What if I get a dare I don't want to do?

Skip it and draw another. There's no penalty. Agree before you start that any card can be skipped, and that your safeword ends the game completely.

Is this truth or dare game private?

Yes. It runs entirely in your browser. Your names, roles, settings, saved prompts, progress and streaks, and any cards you write stay on your device and are never sent to us. Cards and answers you send each other travel inside the link, and dare photos and voice notes go straight from your phone to your chat app (photos with the hidden location details taken out first). The microphone is only on while you record. We only count, anonymously, first and return visits to the game, calendar reminders, which packs are played, cards sent and opened (just the pack's name), and replies sent back (only whether it was a written answer, a voice note, a photo or a done dare), with none of that attached.

Can we add our own truths and dares?

Yes. Open "Names, roles & your cards", write a truth or a dare, and pick its heat level. Your cards are shuffled into whichever pack you play, and you can delete them any time. They're saved on your device only.

What are the joker cards?

Every so often, a joker comes up instead of a truth or a dare. It changes the next card: a double dare you both do, a truth you both answer, a role swap (the card comes from your partner's side, so whoever usually leads follows), or your partner picks how hot your next card is. It never goes above the heat level you've set or brings back categories you switched off, and you can skip a joker like any card, or switch jokers off.

What does "heat it up slowly" do?

It starts you on Flirty, and every six rounds it asks whether you both want to go up a level. Turning it up only happens if you both say yes, and staying where you are is always an option.

Is there a truth or dare of the day?

Yes: tonight's cards, just under the game, give you one truth and one dare at the heat level you choose, new every night at midnight on your device. Tap "Every evening" or "Fridays" to add a reminder to your calendar. The alert just says "Tonight's card". We only count, anonymously, that a reminder was set and when someone comes back from one.

What is the dare of the week?

One Flirty dare, new every Monday, made into an image you can save or share: a post size for your feed and a story size. They are all things you can post without anyone getting into trouble, and like every dare, you can skip it or make it your own.

Is there a truth or dare for swingers?

Yes: the Swingers pack is for two couples in the same room. Before you start, pick what all four of you agreed (own partners only, soft swap, or full swap) and whether the two women play together, then add your names. The cards use the names to say who does what, never go past what you picked, and never put the two men together. Check in with your own partner often, and anyone can pause the game.

Can three people play truth or dare?

Yes. Pick the Threesome pack, choose two women and a man or two men and a woman, and add your names: the cards use them to say who does what, so everyone stays involved. In the two-men version, the men's cards keep their attention on her. The other packs work for groups of up to six too: take turns around the room, and make sure everyone has agreed what's on the table before you start.

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