Truth or Dare Questions for Your Boyfriend: 80 Cute to Spicy Ideas

Whether it’s a cosy night in or a long-distance video call, truth or dare is a great way to get your boyfriend talking. These 80 truths and dares start sweet, get flirty, and finish with a spicy round for when it’s just the two of you.

They’re written so you can ask him, but every one works both ways: the best games are the ones where you answer too.

How to play

1. Agree the level. Sweet and flirty, or spicy too? Decide together before you start.
2. Take turns. Ask “truth or dare?” Truths get an honest answer; dares get done.
3. Skip freely. Either of you can pass on any card. No sulking, no reasons needed.
4. Swap the questions. Every truth here works the other way round too, so ask each other.

Want the cards shuffled for you? Play our free truth or dare game for couples online, or browse our full list of truth or dare questions.

Sweet truth questions

Easy, warm, and good for a first round.

1. What made you want to ask me out?
2. What was going through your head on our first date?
3. What’s a moment with me you’ll never forget?
4. What’s the best thing about coming home to me?
5. What’s something I do that you’d never want me to change?
6. What did you say about me to your friends after we met?
7. What’s your favorite thing to do together on a lazy day?
8. What’s a small thing I do that makes you feel looked after?
9. What’s a song you hear and think of me?
10. What’s one thing you’d love us to try together this year?
11. When did you first realize you were falling for me?
12. What’s something you’ve never told me about how you feel about us?
13. What’s your favorite photo of me?
14. If you planned our perfect weekend, what would we do?
15. What’s something I taught you, or that you learned because of me?
16. What’s the best gift I’ve ever given you?
17. What do you think I do better than anyone?
18. What’s one thing you’d like me to know about you that I don’t?
19. Where do you see us in five years?
20. What’s the best part of being with me?

Cute dares

Silly, sweet and nothing to stress about.

21. Do your best impression of me first thing in the morning.
22. Give me a piggyback ride around the room.
23. Let me style your hair however I like for the rest of the night.
24. Cook me something in five minutes with whatever’s in the kitchen.
25. Tell me the moment you knew you liked me, as dramatically as possible.
26. Sing me one line of a love song, with feeling.
27. Let me pick a profile picture for you for the next 24 hours.
28. Give me three genuine compliments in under 30 seconds.
29. Show me your best dance move.
30. Hold eye contact with me for 30 seconds without laughing.
31. Write me a love note and hide it somewhere I’ll find tomorrow.
32. Do ten push-ups with me sitting on your back (if you both want to).
33. Narrate what I’m doing like a nature documentary for one minute.
34. Recreate our first kiss.
35. Make up a pet name for me and use it all evening.

Flirty truth questions

A little warmer.

36. What’s the first thing you noticed about me?
37. What do I wear that you can’t stop looking at?
38. When do you think I look sexiest?
39. What’s the best kiss we’ve ever had, and where were we?
40. Where do you most love me to kiss you?
41. Have you ever had a dream about me you didn’t tell me about?
42. What’s something I do that gets your attention every time?
43. Do you like it when I make the first move, or when you do?
44. What’s the flirtiest message I’ve ever sent you?
45. What would you do if I sat in your lap right now?
46. What’s the most attractive thing about me that isn’t my looks?
47. Have you ever been distracted at work thinking about me?
48. Neck kisses or ear whispers?
49. What’s one thing you’d love me to say to you more often?
50. What’s something you’d like me to do more often?

Flirty dares

Kisses and a bit of tension.

51. Kiss me from my wrist to my shoulder.
52. Whisper the flirtiest thing you can think of in my ear.
53. Give me a two-minute back massage.
54. Brush your lips against mine without kissing me for ten seconds.
55. Sit with me in your lap until your next turn.
56. Kiss me without using your hands for 30 seconds.
57. Give me three kisses: sweet, teasing, and hungry.
58. Let me take off one item of your clothing.
59. Pull me close and slow dance to a song I pick.
60. Send me a flirty text while we’re sitting right next to each other.

Spicy truth questions

For when it’s just the two of you and you both want to go there.

61. What’s your biggest turn-on that I might not know about?
62. What’s your favorite thing I do in bed?
63. Is there something you’d love to try with me but haven’t asked?
64. What’s the hottest night we’ve had together?
65. What do you picture when you touch yourself?
66. Would you rather I took charge tonight or you did?
67. What’s a fantasy about me you’ve never told me?
68. What do you want me to wear, or not wear, next time?
69. What’s the one thing that drives you wild?
70. What do you want me to do to you right now?

Spicy dares

Private, consensual, and very much optional.

71. Give me a one-minute striptease. I’m not allowed to touch.
72. Let me blindfold you and kiss you anywhere for one minute.
73. Take off my top using only your teeth.
74. Kiss your way down my stomach and stop at the waistband.
75. Let me tie your hands with a scarf until your next turn.
76. Show me exactly how you like to be touched.
77. Lie back and let me tease you for one minute. No touching back.
78. Tell me in detail what you’re going to do to me later.
79. Press me against the wall and kiss me like you mean it.
80. End the game: pick what happens next, and lead me to bed.

Keep it fun for both of you

• Read the room. If your boyfriend is laughing, keep going. If they’re hesitating, drop down a level.
• Spicy is private. The spicy dares are for when it’s just the two of you, behind closed doors.
• Answer your own questions too. It’s more fun when you both open up.

More ideas

• Dares for couples: 100 dares from cute to kinky.
• Spicy truth or dare questions for when you want it to go further.
• Truth or dare over text for long-distance nights.
• Never have I ever questions for couples and would you rather questions for couples.