Never Have I Ever Questions for Couples: 100 Fun to Spicy

Never have I ever is usually a party game, but it’s even better with two. Every “I have” comes with a story, and you’ll learn things about your partner you’d never think to ask. These 100 statements are written for couples, starting silly and ending somewhere a lot warmer.

Before you start, agree how much you want to hear about exes. Most couples find “what, not who” keeps it fun.

How to play with two

1. Take turns reading a statement out loud.
2. If you’ve done it, take a point and tell the story. The other person can ask one follow-up question.
3. Pass freely. Either of you can skip a statement, no questions asked.
4. Keep score or don’t. Some couples play for a forfeit: the loser cooks dinner, gives a massage, or picks the first dare in our dares for couples.

Prefer to tap than read? Our free never have I ever game keeps score for up to six players.

Fun and silly

Confessions you can laugh about.

1. Never have I ever pretended to like your cooking.
2. Never have I ever stolen your side of the bed and claimed I didn’t.
3. Never have I ever watched ahead in a show we were watching together.
4. Never have I ever eaten the last of something and blamed someone else.
5. Never have I ever practised a conversation with you in the mirror.
6. Never have I ever pretended to be asleep to get out of a chore.
7. Never have I ever worn your clothes when you weren’t home.
8. Never have I ever googled you before our first date.
9. Never have I ever laughed at a joke of yours I didn’t get.
10. Never have I ever hidden a purchase from you.
11. Never have I ever fallen asleep during a film you picked.
12. Never have I ever told a friend something about you before telling you.
13. Never have I ever sung in the shower loud enough for you to hear.
14. Never have I ever lied about how much something cost.
15. Never have I ever saved a funny photo of you to use as blackmail.
16. Never have I ever pretended to know a band you mentioned.
17. Never have I ever re-gifted something you gave me.
18. Never have I ever cried at an advert.
19. Never have I ever eaten something off the floor in front of you.
20. Never have I ever been jealous of your pet.
21. Never have I ever said “I’m nearly there” when I hadn’t left yet.
22. Never have I ever secretly rearranged something you organized.
23. Never have I ever practised your signature.
24. Never have I ever had a crush on one of your friends before we met.
25. Never have I ever kept a gift from you that you’ve forgotten giving me.

Relationship and romance

The ones that start real conversations.

26. Never have I ever planned our wedding, or our future home, in my head.
27. Never have I ever reread our old messages.
28. Never have I ever known I loved you before I said it.
29. Never have I ever checked your phone.
30. Never have I ever been nervous before one of our dates, after we’d been together a while.
31. Never have I ever told my family about you before you knew it was serious.
32. Never have I ever kept something from our first date.
33. Never have I ever pretended to be fine after an argument when I wasn’t.
34. Never have I ever thought about what our kids, or pets, would be called.
35. Never have I ever been jealous of someone you talked to.
36. Never have I ever written you something I never sent.
37. Never have I ever stalked your ex on social media.
38. Never have I ever imagined us old together.
39. Never have I ever given you advice I didn’t follow myself.
40. Never have I ever sniffed your pillow when you were away.
41. Never have I ever planned a surprise that went wrong.
42. Never have I ever wanted to say “I love you” first and chickened out.
43. Never have I ever told someone you were the one.
44. Never have I ever been embarrassed by how much I miss you.
45. Never have I ever apologized just to end an argument.
46. Never have I ever saved a voicemail or voice note from you.
47. Never have I ever lied about where I wanted to go for dinner.
48. Never have I ever been grateful you didn’t give up on me.
49. Never have I ever looked at you across a room and thought, “how did I get so lucky?”
50. Never have I ever wanted to marry you, or marry you again.

Flirty

A little warmer, and a lot of blushing.

51. Never have I ever checked you out when you didn’t notice.
52. Never have I ever wanted to kiss you in the middle of an argument.
53. Never have I ever worn something just because I knew you’d like it.
54. Never have I ever had a dream about you I couldn’t tell you about.
55. Never have I ever thought about you at work in a way I shouldn’t have.
56. Never have I ever sent you a flirty message and then panicked.
57. Never have I ever wanted to leave a party early just to be alone with you.
58. Never have I ever practised a sexy look in the mirror.
59. Never have I ever kissed you just to shut you up.
60. Never have I ever wanted to rip your clothes off in front of other people (and didn’t).
61. Never have I ever been turned on by your voice on the phone.
62. Never have I ever picked an outfit hoping you’d take it off me.
63. Never have I ever faked a reason to sit closer to you.
64. Never have I ever bought underwear with you in mind.
65. Never have I ever wanted you more after watching you do something ordinary.
66. Never have I ever thought about our first kiss this week.
67. Never have I ever wanted to skip dinner and go straight to bed.
68. Never have I ever read a sexy scene and pictured us.
69. Never have I ever sent you a selfie I took twenty times.
70. Never have I ever wanted you to make the first move so badly I almost said so.
71. Never have I ever been jealous of your shower.
72. Never have I ever saved a photo of you because you looked so good.
73. Never have I ever flirted with you by text while we were in the same room.
74. Never have I ever wanted to kiss you in a really inconvenient place.
75. Never have I ever had to stop thinking about you to get anything done.

Spicy

For later in the evening. For much dirtier ones, see our dirty never have I ever questions.

76. Never have I ever touched myself thinking about you.
77. Never have I ever faked an orgasm with you.
78. Never have I ever wanted to try something in bed and been too shy to ask.
79. Never have I ever had a fantasy about you I’ve never told you.
80. Never have I ever wanted to use a toy with you.
81. Never have I ever thought about tying you up, or being tied up by you.
82. Never have I ever wanted you to be rougher with me.
83. Never have I ever wanted you to be slower and gentler.
84. Never have I ever replayed one of our nights in my head the next day.
85. Never have I ever wanted to have sex somewhere new in our home.
86. Never have I ever sent you a nude, or wanted to.
87. Never have I ever wanted to watch you touch yourself.
88. Never have I ever wanted to be watched by you.
89. Never have I ever had to be quiet because of housemates or neighbors.
90. Never have I ever wanted to try a position I saw somewhere.
91. Never have I ever enjoyed being bossed around by you.
92. Never have I ever wanted to beg you for something.
93. Never have I ever thought about roleplay with you.
94. Never have I ever wanted you to talk dirtier.
95. Never have I ever wanted to spend a whole day in bed with you.
96. Never have I ever been turned on by something you said in public.
97. Never have I ever wanted to try a blindfold with you.
98. Never have I ever wanted to be spanked by you, or to spank you.
99. Never have I ever started this game hoping it would end in bed.
100. Never have I ever wanted to stop playing right now.

Keep it fun

• “What, not who.” Stories about the past are fun; names and details about exes can sting. Agree the rules first.
• Be kind about the answers. The point is to learn about each other, not to win an argument. If something stings, talk about it tomorrow, not mid-game.
• Follow the curiosity. If your partner hasn’t done something but lights up when it’s read out, that’s worth a later conversation. Our yes/no/maybe list makes it easy.

More games for two

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