How do you play Never Have I Ever?

Read the statement out: "Never have I ever…". Anyone who has done it taps their name (or takes a sip, or folds a finger, whatever your house rule is). Then move on to the next one. The fun is in the stories, so anyone can explain, or not.

Is this version suitable for couples?

Yes. It works for two, and for up to six adults who are comfortable playing together. With a partner, it's an easy way to learn things about each other without a big conversation.

What are the heat levels?

Flirty is about dating, crushes and romance. Spicy adds blindfolds, toys and light kink. Kinky covers things like collars, munches, subspace and protocols. Each level includes the ones below it.

Do I have to answer honestly?

No one has to share anything they don't want to. You can skip a statement, or just not tap. And nobody should be pressured into explaining.

Is anything saved or sent?

Only your player names and heat level are saved, in your browser on this device. Nothing is sent to us.

Free couples game

Kinky Never Have I Ever

Forty-five statements, from flirty to properly kinky. Read one out, tap your name if you have, and share the story if you want to. Works for two, or for a group of up to six adults.

Ground rules before you play

• Any prompt can be skipped, no explanation needed.
• Agree a safeword that ends the game straight away.
• Not sure what's on the table? Compare your yes/no/maybe lists first.
• Everything runs in your browser. Nothing you choose is sent to us.

Never have I ever…

Tap your name if you have:

Score: how many you have done

How to play

Pick a heat level. Start with Flirty and work up if you're all enjoying it.
Read the statement out loud. Anyone who has done it taps their name.
Share the story if you want to. Skipping is always fine.
Tap Next. The score shows who has done the most.

Want more statements? Try our 100 never have I ever questions for couples, from silly confessions to spicy ones, or the 100 dirty never have I ever questions, which go from naughty to properly kinky.

Found something you'd both like to try? Add it to your yes/no/maybe list, or plan it properly with the scene negotiation checklist. Words you don't recognize are in the glossary.

Frequently asked questions

How do you play Never Have I Ever?: Read the statement out: "Never have I ever…". Anyone who has done it taps their name (or takes a sip, or folds a finger, whatever your house rule is). Then move on to the next one. The fun is in the stories, so anyone can explain, or not.
Is this version suitable for couples?: Yes. It works for two, and for up to six adults who are comfortable playing together. With a partner, it's an easy way to learn things about each other without a big conversation.
What are the heat levels?: Flirty is about dating, crushes and romance. Spicy adds blindfolds, toys and light kink. Kinky covers things like collars, munches, subspace and protocols. Each level includes the ones below it.
Do I have to answer honestly?: No one has to share anything they don't want to. You can skip a statement, or just not tap. And nobody should be pressured into explaining.
Is anything saved or sent?: Only your player names and heat level are saved, in your browser on this device. Nothing is sent to us.

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