Dirty Never Have I Ever Questions: 100 for Couples and Adults

Never have I ever is the easiest way to find out what someone’s been up to, and the dirty version is where it gets interesting. These 100 statements go from naughty to properly kinky. They work for couples and for groups of adults who’ve all agreed to play at this level.

A good tip for couples: before you start, agree how much you want to hear about each other’s past partners. Most couples find “what, not who” keeps it fun.

How to play

1. Take turns reading a “Never have I ever…” statement.
2. Anyone who has done it takes a point, eats a sweet, or tells the story. Drinks are optional; keep it light if you use them.
3. Most points loses (or wins, depending on how proud you’re feeling).
4. Pass freely. Anyone can skip a statement, and nobody has to explain an answer.

Our free never have I ever game keeps score for you, with flirty, spicy and kinky levels.

Naughty

A warm-up with a wink.

1. Never have I ever sent a flirty message to the wrong person.
2. Never have I ever skinny-dipped (somewhere private).
3. Never have I ever kissed someone within an hour of meeting them.
4. Never have I ever had a dream about someone in this room.
5. Never have I ever lied about how many people I’ve slept with.
6. Never have I ever been caught making out.
7. Never have I ever worn no underwear on a date.
8. Never have I ever had a crush on a friend’s partner.
9. Never have I ever googled how to do something in bed.
10. Never have I ever watched porn with a partner.
11. Never have I ever read erotica in public.
12. Never have I ever had a one-night stand.
13. Never have I ever made out in a cinema.
14. Never have I ever kissed two people in one night.
15. Never have I ever sent a sext with an embarrassing autocorrect.
16. Never have I ever stalked an ex’s new partner online.
17. Never have I ever bought lingerie I never wore.
18. Never have I ever had a sex dream about a celebrity.
19. Never have I ever been walked in on.
20. Never have I ever hooked up with someone I worked with.
21. Never have I ever been flashed by accident.
22. Never have I ever had a friends-with-benefits arrangement.
23. Never have I ever taken a spicy photo I never sent.
24. Never have I ever lied about my age to impress someone (as an adult).
25. Never have I ever hooked up with an ex.
26. Never have I ever given someone a hickey they had to hide.
27. Never have I ever had sex on a first date.
28. Never have I ever woken up next to someone and forgotten their name.
29. Never have I ever dated two people at once (with or without them knowing).
30. Never have I ever made the first move.
31. Never have I ever kept a sex toy in my bag.
32. Never have I ever practised a kiss on my hand.
33. Never have I ever looked up a sex position halfway through sex.
34. Never have I ever been told I’m a good kisser.
35. Never have I ever had a crush on a teacher, boss or coach (as an adult).

Dirty

More direct. Couples or close friends only.

36. Never have I ever sent a nude (to someone who asked for it).
37. Never have I ever had sex on the kitchen counter.
38. Never have I ever had sex in the shower.
39. Never have I ever faked an orgasm.
40. Never have I ever used a sex toy with a partner.
41. Never have I ever had sex more than three times in one day.
42. Never have I ever had phone sex or video sex.
43. Never have I ever had sex in someone else’s bed.
44. Never have I ever been too loud and had the neighbors complain.
45. Never have I ever given oral in an unusual place (that was private).
46. Never have I ever touched myself thinking about someone in this room.
47. Never have I ever had a threesome.
48. Never have I ever had sex in a hotel room I’d only booked for a few hours.
49. Never have I ever recorded myself during sex (with everyone’s consent).
50. Never have I ever been to a sex shop with a partner.
51. Never have I ever tried sex in front of a mirror.
52. Never have I ever had morning sex before the alarm went off.
53. Never have I ever finished in under a minute.
54. Never have I ever had sex for more than an hour.
55. Never have I ever used food in the bedroom.
56. Never have I ever sexted during a work meeting.
57. Never have I ever come more than once in one go.
58. Never have I ever stopped mid-sex because we couldn’t stop laughing.
59. Never have I ever had makeup sex after a fight.
60. Never have I ever tried a position that ended in an injury.
61. Never have I ever had sex in a hot tub.
62. Never have I ever done a striptease.
63. Never have I ever received a lap dance.
64. Never have I ever had sex in a car.
65. Never have I ever gone a whole day without wearing clothes.
66. Never have I ever had sex with someone whose name I didn’t know.
67. Never have I ever played strip poker.
68. Never have I ever been turned on by someone’s voice alone.
69. Never have I ever gone down on someone for so long my jaw ached.
70. Never have I ever wanted to have sex during this game.

Kinky

For the kink-curious, or the already kinky.

71. Never have I ever been tied up.
72. Never have I ever tied someone else up.
73. Never have I ever been spanked and liked it.
74. Never have I ever used handcuffs in bed.
75. Never have I ever been blindfolded during sex.
76. Never have I ever used a safeword.
77. Never have I ever called someone “sir”, “miss” or another title in bed.
78. Never have I ever been told to beg.
79. Never have I ever role-played a stranger.
80. Never have I ever tried orgasm denial or edging.
81. Never have I ever worn a collar.
82. Never have I ever been to a kink event or munch.
83. Never have I ever bought a flogger, paddle or crop.
84. Never have I ever tried wax play.
85. Never have I ever had a fantasy about being dominated.
86. Never have I ever had a fantasy about being in charge.
87. Never have I ever enjoyed being called a good girl or good boy.
88. Never have I ever been tied to the bed and teased for what felt like forever.
89. Never have I ever worn latex or leather for someone.
90. Never have I ever tried pegging.
91. Never have I ever had a scene that lasted all evening.
92. Never have I ever left marks someone was proud of.
93. Never have I ever been praised until I melted.
94. Never have I ever been to a sex club.
95. Never have I ever followed rules from a partner for a whole day.
96. Never have I ever tried a chastity device.
97. Never have I ever experienced subspace.
98. Never have I ever been edged until I begged.
99. Never have I ever discovered a kink because of a partner.
100. Never have I ever been nervous to admit a kink, then found out my partner shared it.

Keep it fun

• “What, not who.” Talking about past experiences is fun; details about specific exes can sting. Agree the rules first.
• Curiosity counts. If your partner hasn’t done something but lights up when it’s read out, that’s worth a later conversation.
• Drinks are optional. If you play with alcohol, keep it light. Decisions about sex are best made sober.

Found something you’d both like to try? Talk it through first: our yes/no/maybe list helps. Want a gentler round first? Try our never have I ever questions for couples. For more games, try dirty would you rather questions, spicy truth or dare questions or our full list of sex games for couples.