How does the couples comparison work?

Answer the questions on your own, then tap "Share with a partner" to send them a link. They answer on their own device and press Compare to see what percentage you match on, which answers you share, and where you differ.

Can my partner see all my answers?

Yes. Unlike our yes/no/maybe list, this game shows where you differ as well as where you match, since none of the questions involve saying no to anything. The link contains your answers, so only send it to the person you're comparing with.

Are my answers saved?

Only in your browser on this device. Nothing is sent to us or stored on a server.

Does picking an answer mean I want to do it?

No. It's a preference between two options, not a promise. Treat matches and differences as conversation starters, and talk about anything before you try it.

Free couples game

Kinky Would You Rather for Couples

Thirty would-you-rather questions, from lights on or off to who holds the leash. Answer them on your own, send your partner the link, and see where you match.

Ground rules before you play

• Any prompt can be skipped, no explanation needed.
• Agree a safeword that ends the game straight away.
• Not sure what's on the table? Compare your yes/no/maybe lists first.
• Everything runs in your browser. Nothing you choose is sent to us.

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How to play

Answer each question on your own. Skip any you're not sure about.
Tap Share with a partner and send them the link.
They answer on their own device and tap Compare our answers.
Talk about your matches, and especially your differences. Those are often the most fun ideas.

Want more to ask out loud? Try our 100 would you rather questions for couples, or the dirty would you rather questions for something spicier.

For a more detailed comparison that keeps your "no" answers private, try our yes/no/maybe list. For ideas to try together, see 30 kinky sex ideas.

Frequently asked questions

How does the couples comparison work?: Answer the questions on your own, then tap "Share with a partner" to send them a link. They answer on their own device and press Compare to see what percentage you match on, which answers you share, and where you differ.
Can my partner see all my answers?: Yes. Unlike our yes/no/maybe list, this game shows where you differ as well as where you match, since none of the questions involve saying no to anything. The link contains your answers, so only send it to the person you're comparing with.
Are my answers saved?: Only in your browser on this device. Nothing is sent to us or stored on a server.
Does picking an answer mean I want to do it?: No. It's a preference between two options, not a promise. Treat matches and differences as conversation starters, and talk about anything before you try it.

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